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My interest and insights have changed over the years, things are not what they used to be, things are not what they really seem to be, life is much more than what we perceive it to be, my blog is my attempt to understand and share some of my thoughts that are expressible. Happily married, mother of two amazing little people...

Saturday, December 15, 2007

How can you lash a rape victim and charge a lover of a pet named Mohamed?

Under law in Saudi Arabia, women are subject to numerous restrictions, including a strict dress code, a prohibition on driving and a requirement that they get a man's permission to travel or have surgery. Women are also not allowed to testify in court unless it is about a private matter that was not observed by a man, and they are not allowed to vote. This is a regular media blur.
But, nothing here resembles the Islam practiced by the majority of Muslims in the world, so obviously this is Saudi Law and not an Islamic Law. Muslim women may travel, not don black gowns and veils, vote, be witnesses in courts and appeal for a divorce and well, even drive, and that too alone. So when Islam has granted women so many rights and privileges, these bias misogynist men are only destroying human life and Islam with their personal judgments, as in the case of the lady who is sentenced to lashes after being raped, on the pretext that she is an accessory to sexual enticement by walking about alone.
It's nice to hear that the higher Judicial body is reconsidering these laws and it's time, especially how we have seen Saudi Prince Abdullah has been leading some smart political, social and even economic moves, recently, to correct some major evils and build bridges. The fact is the husband of this rape victim rightly said that his wife was abducted from a mall and raped and she was not in any illicit relationship. Not because a woman walks without a mahram/ approved relative she is evil. As a matter of fact, this requirement is only for long distance travel and too if it's insecure, as can be seen how Hajj groups relax this law. Why the Saudis don't charge the girls who walk the malls passing cell numbers out, internet chat and enjoy satellite TV non chaperoned? That's having a relationship without a "relative". Moreso how about not being picky on criminal charges and improve relationship with minorities and Shiite brothers and sisters. Charging non nationals is no justice; moreso, gang-raping a woman is no "honor".
So if someone slams this episode as barbaric, it's the barbarism of a human nature expressed by some wicked authority and not in anyway a libel against the pure feminist laws of Islam nor an attack on an entire women-protecting society.
In the same token, I would beg that we continue to support our domestically abused at home and help them to rise above these cultural and social yokes that seem to travel relentlessly, despite the visas of enlightened ports.
Look how silly the issue in Sudan is, about a woman naming her pet Muhammad, despite being defended by her students and herself claiming this is not her intention- i.e. to demean our Holy Prophet, on whom be peace. So do we have any disenfranchisement warrant for those whose name is Muhammad but do not represent His life? How insulting to the Prophet, isn't it? However, a person can name someone or something off an everyday Mohr; now is that a problem? Sure, how about other Prophets, be peace on them all?

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

Another Milestone...

Happy Birthday to Meeeeee......

Gosh this is so unbelievable... I cant believe its my birthday again, so fast!!! I can recall blogging about my birthday just the other day...Time is nothing huh..
Just getting old so damn quickly...
Anyways just had a real nice day...Im kinda surprised that "some" people still remembered!
Ive got some totally unbelievable gifts LOL! Thanks guys for making my day really extra special....the fun things you guys did is what ill remember forever...
Thanks again..
I so badly want to put a nice cute pic on this post, but I really dont have much time to go hunting for that...so I guess this shall do for now..

Friday, November 16, 2007

National Day of Testing.....

The National Day of testing is held under the theme “Don’t take chances---take the test..
Its an exercise hosted by the Health Ministry and the National AIDS Programme Secretariat (NAPS) targets some 2,500 persons.
Some 46 fixed sites, in addition to 53 temporary ones, have been set up at strategic locations across the country. The will begin at 7. 30 am and is expected to end at 4.00pm.
Participants will first be counselled both individually and in groups, where required, before being administered the test. In addition, there will be a group of floating counsellors to pitch in if the situation gets overwhelming.
Those tested positive, will be referred to a treatment site for more detailed counselling; and if their condition is serious, they will be given medication.

Dont take chances, get tested, know your status ASAP...

Thursday, November 15, 2007

Touching Story..

What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line, there isn't one.
Read it anyway.
My question is: Would you have made the same choice?

At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended.
After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: 'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection.
Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?' The audience was stilled by the query. The father continued. 'I believe, that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child.' Then he told the following story: Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball.
Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps. Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.' Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat. At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball. However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher. The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game. Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first! Run to first!' Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled. Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!' Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball ... the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.
All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay' Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third! Shay, run to third!' As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!' Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team. 'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world'. Shay didn't make it to another summer.
He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!
A wise man once said every society is judged by how it treats it's least fortunate amongst them.
May your day, be a Shay Day

Saturday, November 03, 2007

A New World...

Been a very long while indeed!
SO much been happening, seems like im in a whole new world with work and studies.. hardly having time on hand..
Missed blogging alot though and hopefully ill be writing more often..

Monday, August 20, 2007

Where do I begin?? Well ive just been so damn busy at work..Its no fun working at the hospital, its always packed, and people are always in a mad rush to get the best possible care, so basically you've goto be working all the time...Its always very pleasurable to see the look of relief on patients faces and see them happy after all... So I guess its all good... its totally fun too, Workmates are koool...

Friday, July 13, 2007

You Will Be a Traditional Bride!

You're the type of girl who is feminine, old fashioned, and totally traditional.
You've been dreaming of your wedding day since you were young
And you can't wait to be a princess in your big white gown.All that you dreamt of will come through, you will be surprised.
It's likely that you'll have a big family wedding and take your husband's name
While a very huge affair will be fun, just don't go all Bridezilla about the color of your napkins!

Tuesday, July 10, 2007



Dreamy...... did you ever wonder why cats always fall on their feet?

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Did you really ever thought about it?

I was reading an article about artificial insemination today..
I was shocked to learnt that more than 30,000 kids are born each year through this way.
Kids who will never know their dad.
Its kinds strange in a way.. A sperm donor donates his sperms, and have no idea who will benefit..Donor just trying to make someone happy, make someone's life; thats great indeed!
What I find somewhat strange is that the sperm from one donor might be used to impregnate several women.. which technically means the man have several kids! and those kids have several sibblings..
Sperm donors have rights to anonymity and will not be obligated to care for any child who may be conceived through artificial insemination with his sperms..
Now it have an organisation that help to unite kids who are half sibblings, and maybe even their biological father. Its now a daily event that people are united.Some united as kids, or when they are much older. Can you imagine, some might even be dating their half sibbling??
I think its just messed up...
What do you guys think about this?

Read more here..

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

Real Ignorance LOL...

A story about a west indian man...a story dat wud only happen in di west indies....as he writes:

"Ah went wid mi fasness an get marrid to a widow who had a daughta dat was big already...
As ting will happen mi fadda come and fall in love wit mi new step daughta and he get marrid to she...

Derefor: mi fadda now get to be mi son in law while at di same time mi step daughta now become mi step mudda...But dat ent all

In di meantime, mi wife get pregnant an' had mi son- mi son who now turn out to be mi fadda brudah in law and also mi own uncle because he is di bruddah of mi step muddah who is also mi step daughta. Is here tings turn real mad....

Mih fadda wife now have a son who is technically mi brudda but in trut is mi gran chile...derefor: mi wife is mi granmudda cause she is mi step muddah's muddah..

So now I is mi wife husban and shi granchile at di same time! An' being di husband of a granmuddah mek me ah granfaddah- So now I end up bein mi own granfaddah

Saturday, June 16, 2007

When it rains, it really pours...
Just when you think its over, believe me, its just the beginning..
Life is so damn strange at times..
These days, just seems to be soo much more difficult... oh mannn... all thats left to do is screammmmm!!!!!!!

Saturday, June 09, 2007

BEST POEM EVER
Received this in an email... sweet

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or needs to...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...something perfect to wear if the employer, or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..a youth she's content to leave behind....
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ... a past juicy enough that she's looking forward toretelling it in her old age....
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .....a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal, that will make her guests feel honored...
A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...a feeling of control over her destiny...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...how to fall in love without losing herself..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...how to quit a job,break up with a lover, and confront a friend without; ruining the friendship...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...that she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...that her childhood may not have been perfect...but its over...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. whom she can trust,whom she can't,and why she shouldn't take it personally...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...where to go...be it to her best friend's kitchen table...or a charming inn in the woods...when her soul needs soothing...
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... what she can and can't accomplish in a day...a month...and a year...

Sunday, June 03, 2007

Quote of the day...

Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared. --- Buddha

Friday, April 27, 2007


Ramblings…

Well Well Well…. Im so loosing touch with the world of blogging…
Guess you will be thinking, whats making me so busy?? Right??
Oh well, it’s a surprise, ill reveal that someday soon LOL…
Im trying to live my daily life as normal as possible..Believing everyday to be my last..
Believe me, its truly amazing.. its like a revival, not leaving anything for tomorrow because you’re not sure about tomorrow…it’s a great feeling, because at the end of the day, when you lie in bed reflecting, you know you’ve done your very best for that day, no regrets..feels like a brand new world…No hopes about any distant future, etc ,etc.. sure feels good…

Well Cricket World Cup is almost over, not the WC I was dreaming about..anyways, may the best team win tomorrow..
Brian Lara retires!!! For those who knew me, im sure you will know how much hurt I am.. Ive always been his number one fan.. Well such is life though, nothing lasts forever.. Good Luck Brian, was a pleasure and joy to watch you play..

Monday, April 09, 2007

Life and Death...

I went to a funeral today, one of my neighbour.. after a long time.
As I stood there watching her mom crying, her husband holding their baby and little girl, tears streaming, a thought struck me.. One day it will be me, maybe it will me my husband and kids, or my mom and dad..One day ill leave just the same way to go deep under.. to the world beyond..
But then again there must be something...something more serious, that we dont sometimes understand...
Why are we here in the first place if we have to leave someday? Are we not here for a reason? for some significant purpose?
I realise thats how life is, and whatever we do now, must be done the best way we possibly can, make people smile, dont hate or discriminate, love those who dont care or like you a bit, share, and let others know how much they mean to you, before you wount ever have the chance again

Monday, April 02, 2007

Ramblings

Its amazing how your time can be taken up, sometimes I just have no time for myself..
Well West Indies continue to disappoint me in the World Cup tournament, I hope they do make it to the semi finals.
My friends and I went out to Celinas Atlantic Resort, its this kool place on the shore of the Atlantic, nice place to hang out, romantic too lol..
Anyways we decided to order plain friend rice and sour and sweet chicken..
Plain fried rice meaning no chicken or stuff mixed in it...
Anyways we ended up with 4 huge plates of plain white rice staring at us LOL, it was totally funny, we just could not help laughing, someone forgot to say plain fried rice, and ordered plain rice!!!!!
Well we had to eat plain white rice and sour and sweet chicken lol and mind you it was great

Saturday, March 17, 2007

Im Back!!

Im hopefully back for good... Ive missed blogging and reading blogs..felt lost from my little space in cyberworld..
Well I do feel alot better mentally, more relaxed, etc... exept for a nagging toothache, my wisdom teeth peeking out little by little and its miserable!
Its cricket world cup in the Caribbean...The first week of play is over, and wow it was fun and full of surprises......
I cant believe Pakistan is kicked out of the tournament, they lost to Ireland, one of the new team playing this year, and India lost to Blangladesh..Who could have predicted this??
WOW its all in the fun and excitement lol...
Anyways my team is West Indies always... Lets see what our team does

Wednesday, February 28, 2007

I know its been a while since ive blogged, im just so really busy and caught up in all thats going on around me, and i really do miss reading blogs from you guys...
Cant wait to be back really soon, as soon as I have stuff sorted out...
Missed you blogmates!!!

Monday, February 19, 2007

CAREER DAY
University of Guyana (UG), 2007




Wow, what a day it was....

Career day at UG, is a day set aside for kids in high school to come and see what UG have to offer, in other words, trying to help them to choose a career that is of interest to them, explaining to them what it is all about, what UG expects of them, what they can possibily do in the future, scopes and opportunities for further studies, etc, etc..
Well this year it was a competition among faculty, competing for the Registrar trophy and a whole lot of other prices.... My faculty ( Health Sciences) choose to wear red and black and of course complimented with the lab coats... boy we sure did looked like professionals....
The day went on with us talking to curious students and teachers and anyone else who wanted to know more about being a pharmacist, and by the end of the day, ive had it with talking one thing over and over, and yes even my leg gived up lol
Anyways the good thing that came out of that day was that I really knew what I wanted to be, I feel happy knowing that this is what I want, you know talking to people about it makes me feel, hey this is it, and there is absolutely nothing else in the world ill want to be....
BTW im still not sure who won, as soon as I do know ill let you know, of course all indications showed Health Sciences will win, because we showed alot more sings of preparation, we were more uniform, and i think we did bring out what was essential to convince students of their career choices...
We had most of the students attracted to our faculty as well, because almost every singe one of them wanted to see the "dead man", thats preserved for studies in Medicine... What an attraction that was!!!!
The picture above shows a set of soon to be pharmacists, minutes before the actual expo started....

Saturday, February 17, 2007

Weekend Humor...

Confusing English...

1.If Fed Ex and UPS were to merge, would they be called Fed-UP?
2. Do Lipton Tea employees take coffee breaks?
3. If olive oil comes from olives, where does baby oil come from?
4. If people from Poland are called Poles, why aren't people from Holland called Holes?
5. Do infants enjoy infancy as much as adults enjoy adultery?
6. Why is the man who invests all your money called a broker?
7. If horrific means to make horrible, does terrific mean to make terrible?
8. Why is it called building when it is already built?
9. If a book about failures doesn't sell, is it a success?

10. If you're not supposed to drink and drive, then why do bars have parking lots?
11. If you take an Oriental person and spin him around several times, does he become disoriented?
12. If vegetarians eat vegetables, what do humanitarians eat? Humans ???
13. If working hours are meant for working, then why are you reading this???
NOW Get Back to WORK !!!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, February 14, 2007

The city's gone crazy...

It was so lovely, everyone in red and white, it was packed downtown.. reminds me of what it looks like christmas time...and yes not only because it was Valentines day, but Guyanese sure is having a treat today...
Tonight is the launching of a very new phone company in Guyana "Digicel".
Digicel is very popular around the Caribbean, so this means GT&T is not alone anymore. Its truly amazing to see how fast digicel is taking over Guyana, you can actually have a cell phone for just $5 US. WOW!! Talk about competition!!! So much more new features, cheaper rates, and a whole lot more....
Almost every single vehicle had a red and white digicel flag.. and thats not all!! The one and only AKON and TOK is here tonight for the launching, and its absolutely free to go to the show/launching once you have a ticket, that you can collect when you buy anything from Digicel...Talk about the city going crazy....This is so much like a national event...
Its good to see people so much into things, it brings out what our motto truly said...and with the world cup cricket only few days away... one can only imagine what will happen around here...
Anyways I went to the city mall this morning.. AKON was schedule to be there 9 30 am...Loads of people where flocked there from as early as 7 30 am... He had a red carpet welcome and boy it was all fun...
Now as AKON will say "Smack that" lol, no more take what you have service from GT&T...With digicel, expect more, get more...
No wonder the city's gone crazy.

Here is a link to listen to Akon's music online...
Enjoy.....

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

Hold on tight to the ones you love...

To realize the value of a sister or brother ask someone who doesn't have one.
To realize the value of ten years:Ask a newlyDivorced couple.
To realize the value of four years:Ask a graduate.
To realize the value of one year:Ask a student who has failed a final exam.
To realize the value of nine months:Ask a mother who gave birth to a stillborn.
To realize the value of one month:Ask a motherwho has given birth to a premature baby.
To realize the value of one week:Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.
To realize the value of one minute:Ask a person who has missed the train, bus or plane.
To realize the value of one-second:Ask a person who has survived an accident.
Time waits for no one. Treasure every moment you have. You will treasure it even more whenyou can share it with someo ne special. To realize the value of a friend or family member: LOSE ONE.


This was sent to me in an email, its something we should all think about...
Enjoy Valentines everyone!!

Tuesday, February 06, 2007

Poem to Ponder

Dear God, forgive me...

Today upon a bus
I saw a girl with golden hair
And wished I was as fair.
When suddenly she rose to leave,
I saw her hobble down the aisle.
She had one leg and wore a crutch,
But as she passed, a smile.
Dear God, forgive me when I whine,
I have two legs the world is mine.

I stopped to buy some candy.
The lad who sold it to me had such charm.
I talked with him, he seems so glad;
If I were late, it'd do no harm;
And as I left, he said to me:
"I thank you, you've been so kind.
Its so nice to talk with folks like you.
You see, "he said, "Im blind."
Dear God forgive me when I whine,
I have two eyes, the world is mine.

Later while walking down the street
I saw a child with eyes of blue.
He stood and watched the others play.
He did not know what to do.
I stopped a moment and then I said:
"Why dont you join the others, dear?"
He looked ahead without a word.
And then I knew he couldn't hear.
Dear God forgive me when I whine.

With feet to take me where I'd go.
With eyes to see the sunset's glow.
With ears to hear what I'd know.
Dear God forgive me when I whine.
Im blessed indeed, the world is mine.

Saturday, February 03, 2007

Ramblings....

Ive had pretty much a roller coaster week, one minute im right up in the clouds, and the next im flat on my face.. Does anyone know how that feels? Its very frustrating..
You know they would say, behind every cloud there is a silver lining..I dont really know how true that is, but from all that had happened this week, I pretty much learnt that I am the only one who can make myself happy. I have depended for too long on people to make my day, and to make me happy, when truly I am the only one who can make me happy... I think I let the stuff people around me do, get to me and it really does have an effect on me...ive learnt that Im the only one who can really take charge of my life, my happiness and my sorrow depend entirely on ME..
I will let this post remind me everytime that im the only one who have control over my life and my emotions, whatever others around me does, it still only depend on ME

Sunday, January 28, 2007

Someone please hit me so hard!!!!

Or slap me on the back of my head or punch me in the stomach or face. I bet you want to know why I am opening invitations to give me a good beating, and I am sure you probably don't care, because you just don't know how to get here fast enough to happily accept the invitation. Well, let me tell you, I was just not in the best of moods today, and took it out on someone that I really should've not. I was snappy and mean. I was slightly frustrated by my snappiness which made me more snappy and bitchy. Then I thought about it, and I know it's going to bother me until I see them again and make up for it if I can. But how? I have to dwell on these damn "emotions" and be bothered for a really long while.I was never an expert in realizing exactly when to push people away. Closeness freaks me out. I am very close to my friends,I dont have many, two really close and dear ones and would never ever push them away. In fact, if they try to go away( when we kinda fight), I try as hard as I can to keep them from doing just that. But there are some people that I just want to have so close, yet it seems the closer I want them,and the closer they tried to get, the harder I try to push them away. Seriously, someone, tell me, what's wrong with me?Pardon me while I go and scream into a pillow!

Friday, January 26, 2007

50 things about me...

1. Nickname: Tima - the common one - the one for strict use by family members only

2. Were you named after anyone? Yes

3. When did you last cry? everytime

4. Do you like your handwriting?Somewhat... It can look nice sometimes but utterly horrible in others.

5. What is your favorite lunch meat?Erm... What's a lunch meat?

6. Do you have kids?Nope

7. If you were another person, would you be friends with you?
If I can't even be friends with myself, who will be friends with me?!


8. Do you have a journal? Yes but I'm not telling you where I keep it!

9. Do you use sarcasm a lot? I used to use it a lot... Lately I've kinda lost the knack to do it...

10. Do you still have your tonsils? Yes

11. Would you bungee jump?Bring it on baby!

12. What is your favorite cereal?FROOT LOOPS!

13. Do you take off your shoes when you sit down? yeah i need to do that before i get to the sofa!

14. How many freckles on ya bum?Odd question.. Is it really important for you to know?


15. What is your favorite ice cream? Pistachios and Almond and anything with chocolate..

16. What is the first thing you notice about people? Their eyes...

17. Red or pink? Pink

18. What is your least favorite thing about yourself? My ability to trust others easily

19. Who do you miss the most?? Someone

20. Do you want everyone to send this back to you? Ummm they better.. Its taking my time do answer this anyways!!

21. What color pants and shoes are you wearing? I'm not wearing any shoes... As for pants, they are grey.

22. The last thing you ate? Chinese cake

23. What are you listening to right now?The sound of me typing.

24. If you were a crayon, what color would you be? Blue.

25. Favorite smell?Hmm... The smell of success! :)) Okok... Seriously... I like the smell of my perfume - Colours of Bennetton, the smell of freshly mowed grass, the smell of the Body Shop stores and the smell of chocolate.

26. Who was the last person you talked to on the phone? My aunt..

27. Do you like the person who sent this to you?Yeah I do.

28. Favorite drinks? Coke, Water.

29. Favorite sport? Cricket, Werstling, Tennis, Football

30. Hair color? Brown- I used to have dark black ..

31. Eye color?Dark brown

32. Do you wear contacts? Nope

33. Favorite foods? Pizza, rice, chicken cooked in various ways, and ice cream.

34. Scary movies or happy endings? Both. Different times call for different types of movies.

35. Last movie you watched?Hilary Duff and Chad Michael Murray's "The Cinderella Story"

36. What color shirt are you wearing?Green

37. Summer or winter? umm Summer

38.Hugs or kisses? Both

39. Favorite dessert? Hahahahahaha... If that's a singular, then you're crazy because I'm a dessertarian! How can I have only *one* favourite dessert?! You've got to be kidding! ROFL! Mochi... Ice cream... Cake... Fruits... Jello... Pudding... Pie... There's more...

40. Mostly likely to respond? I dont know

41. Least likely to respond?What a redundant question. Similar to No 40.

42. What did you watch on tv last night? Passions

43. Do you have pets? Nope

44. Who was the last overnight guest in your home? Umm I cant say that loud..

45. What are your favorite sounds? Music! Babies laughter...

46. Rolling Stones or Beatles?Neither.

47. The furthest you have been from home? away from home

48. Do you have a special talent? creativity..

49. Where were you born? Skeldon , Guyana

50. Here is just for fun! What is your stripper name? What a weird question... Honestly... Like I'd know the answer to that. Heck, I'm no stripper! Nor will I ever be one...

Sunday, January 21, 2007

I came across this.....

Half of the websites I visit, happened by accident. My latest one is this page, that is a "humorous" version of Wikipedia, it's called Uncyclopedia. I was looking up something for my dad, and I started reading it for him, and then we thought something sounded wrong, and way too funny, so I searched for things I know enough about to know right from wrong, and what do you know? It's a mockery of Encyclopedias! Funny stuff. If you want a good laugh, look for things you know about and read up. Please, make sure you don't let your child who's writing a report about the Middle Ages in Europe to use this website! And don't try to contibute to any arguments or conversations based on anything you read here, OK? HAHA else you know what will happen??

Saturday, January 20, 2007


Here are ten small steps for longer life.....

Floss Your Teeth - Flossing at least twice a day is essential to prevent decay. Too few people floss, putting themselves at risk of life threatenting disease such as mouth cancer and heart diseases.
Have your eyes tested - A thorough eye test is a health check that can detect underlying conditions that leave you predisposed to sight loss.
Eat Good Bacteria - Natural yogurt are essential for our digestive health and helping the immune system to work.

Take A Cholesterol Test - Everyone over 40yrs should know their cholesterol level and if it is high, aim to reduce it, as heart disease is the biggest killer.

Stop Slouching - Better posture is the single most effective weapon against chronic back problems

Switch To Unsalted Butter - Cutting your salt intake by one teaspoon a day can halve your risk of coronary heart diseases, check food labels. Choose those with low salt or sodium contents .25g of salt per 100g of food or switched to unsalted butter.

Eat A Can Of Sardine A Week - Omega 3 Fatty acids in oily fish ( sardines, tuna, herring, sprats) plays an important part in the development of the central nervous system and countering a range of conditions, including heart diseases and Alzheimer's. We should eat two portions of fish a week, one of them oily.

Reduce Your Waist Line - A recent study found that people who has the biggest tummies were 40 percent more likely to suffer from heart attack. Women should have a waistline of less than 31.5 inches and men 37 inches.

Squeeze Your Pelvic Floor Muscles - Many women suffers from urinary incontinence - but the embrassassing nature of the problem means many never see a doctor. By doing regular pelvic floor exercise improves your bladder control. First, squeeze your pelvic floor muscles and hold for a few seconds. Repeat this ten times, and do the whole exercise at least four times a day.

Stop Making Plans - 'Live in the moments' the new year is a time when people reflect on the past and makes plans for the future, but if you have too many regrets or set yourself unachievable goals you' ll end up disappointed. 'The term living in the moment - led to less stress and boosted the immune system'.


Should you have questions, please do not hesitate to ask...... add your list too...

Sunday, January 14, 2007

What I did...

Today was a friend of mines wedding...My god I dont know why weddings are always so emotional for me, I so wish can control my tears lol..
Someone told me I cry at weddings because I want to be married as well, but hell no, thats not the truth...Of course I dont want to be married right now... but geeee isnt it just so emotional??
Its a sad thing I think, I mean leaving your home and going with someone else that you love ( yeah that should be exciting) , but an old friend always told me, its just not the glamor on the wedding day, or the dreamy life that counts, its how you see yourself with that person some 10 years down the line, and stuff like that, yeah stuff thats enough to scare me away lol...
Anyways lots of people did it and succeeded right?? But the tears are only natural too??
Im afraid what will happen when im going down that road, im afraid im too very emotional..I think I need help with this thing lol,being an emotional freak is scary at times... Im soo serious!!! I feel embarassed crying when no one else seems to care....
Oh well enough about me going on and on lol, the food at the wedding was good, I met a few old pals, and yeah my friend looked like a princess....

Tuesday, January 09, 2007

Scary Passion...
For a while now, I find myself hooked on wrestling, yes its scary lol.. Can you believe ive looked at like 12 DVDs of wrestling in 3 days?? Its like really strange... I remember when I was growing up, everyone used to go crazy about wrestling, and I used to so hate it... It used to gross me out..Someone told me its a bad karma that kicked me there lol...Anyways wrestling is so much fun, yes now I know its not actually real, its just entertainment...I used to be just as crazy for cricket some years ago lol, even though I still like the sport, Im not really freaking out behind it like I used to...
I still cant believe my favourite John Cena lost to stupid Kevin Federline on NYR, I hope pay back time will come soon lol.
DX (The generation X) is kool tooo, The Underaker, Kane, etc
The Hardy boys are cute lol...
The Divas are total madness, non stop laughter, their fights are like chickens, oh how can I forget, Edge and Lita hmm what a couple lol...
Does anyone else have this scary freaky passion ( as he would say) for wrestling??? Or am I only the crazy one?

Friday, January 05, 2007

Thoughts...Assumptions...Meanings..

Its been a while since ive blogged, well here I am again, holidays are done and life is back to normal lol... was I missed???
Its my first blog for the new year..

A new year is here.... It's a great opportunity to re-examine your assumptions, and to get rid of the ones that no longer make any sense.
Assumptions can be very useful because they free you from having to think through every little detail. Assumptions are a practical way to make positive use of your extensive past experience.
Remember, though, that change is a constant part of life. People change, conditions change, the world changes, and all those changes can quickly make your assumptions obsolete.
Outdated assumptions can keep you stuck when there's really no reason for you to be stuck. Outdated assumptions can prevent you from connecting with good and valuable things that are easily within your reach......
As you go through each day, make note of the assumptions you rely upon. Select a few of those assumptions and seriously challenge them.
You'll find limitations you thought you had that are no longer there, and opportunities you never knew about that are now open to you. As the new year begins, free yourself from outdated assumptions, and you'll find all sorts of new possibilities popping into view.

You have the opportunity, right now, to make today mean something. Instead of just getting through this day, you can live it in such a way that it positively transforms your life and your world........
There is an essential part of you that longs to make a difference. Underneath all the superficial comings and goings of daily life, there is a driving purpose that is your life.
Whatever you may be doing on the outside, there is a way to express the purpose that lives on the inside. The more you discover, explore and stay connected to that purpose, the more rich and fulfilling your life will be......
You can make real and lasting meaning out of the smallest, most seemingly insignificant moment. In this day there are countless chances to do so.
Remember often the wondrous miracle that is your life. Let your thoughts, words and actions flow freely from the valuable, authentic person you are, and great things will surely happen.
This is a day to be filled with meaning and positive purpose. Now is your chance to make it a true treasure. You can truly make a difference, you have to power to be what you want to be...